Family in Crisis . . . We Are Here to Help!


“Whatever brought you here, you are not alone.”

Free Support Group Meetings

Find a location for a Parent Support Group or Youth Support Group near you. Meetings are open to the public, and there are no membership requirements or dues. B.I.L.Y. is a place to talk with other parents who listen without judgment and blame. "When raising children, Dennis says, "Pain is inevitable, but the suffering is optional."


B.I.L.Y. Annual Fundraiser

B.I.L.Y.'s Annual Silent Auction and Texas Hold ‘Em Poker Tournament Fundraiser is coming June 8, 2014.
It's a time of good clean fun that everyone can enjoy and that supports B.I.L.Y. in helping families all year long! Donations for the Silent Auction are welcomed, and registration for the Tournament is open! Find out more
by clicking below.

B.I.L.Y. Fundraiser

"Daddy, I'm Pregnant"

In September 1981, Dennis' daughter said those words on the way to the funeral of his wife and children's mother. Two weeks later his young son was expelled from school and addicted to marijuana. Read B.I.L.Y. Founder's journey as he brought healing to his family and birthed a resource that would go on to help thousands of others around the world. Available from his website From Aggravation To Preservation.

Dennis' Books

B.I.L.Y. In The News

News articles documenting how Because I Love You, going into its 32nd year, has served more than 700,000 parents and youth. Working together on behavioral problems, families of children, teens, and adult children have found hope and positive change.


Dear Dennis

In crisis, or need guidance? Ask Dennis Poncher, Founder of Because I Love You, your questions. He responds to his mail daily.

Ask Dennis a Question

Is B.I.L.Y. For Me?

"You do not have bad children. You have good kids making bad choices. We're going to help you help them start to make the right choices." Experience a support group as Dennis speaks in a Parent Support Group, and teens share with each other in the Youth Support Group.

Parent Video Youth Video

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