Family in Crisis . . . We Are Here to Help!


“Whatever brought you here, you are not alone.”

Bily News!

Because I Love You was recently featured in an Los Angeles Times article titled "'Professional Parents' in Free Support Group Offer Aid to Troubled Families." Read what they said about us here.

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B.I.L.Y. In The News

Media coverage documenting how Because I Love You has been helping families in crisis for 33 years, serving more than 700,000 parents and and at-risk youth across the U.S. and Canada. Working together on behavioral problems, families of children, teens, and adult children have found hope and positive change.


Dear Dennis

In crisis, or need guidance?
Ask Dennis Poncher, Founder of Because I Love You, your questions.
He responds to his mail daily.

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Aggravation To Preservation

Free Support Group Meetings

Find a location for a Parent Support Group or Youth Support Group near you. Meetings are open to the public, and there are no membership requirements or dues. B.I.L.Y. is a place to talk with other parents who listen without judgment and blame. "When raising children," Dennis says, "pain is inevitable, but the suffering is optional."